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Elise_Rim
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2 years ago

Triple Negative Diagnosis

Hi there, I'm new to this community...and the cancer journey. I am a 39yo school teacher with two beautiful young children (4 and 2yo). I am halfway through five months of chemo with surgery and radiotherapy to follow...

I was hoping that I might find other TNBC ladies on here to connect with, as I navigate the side effects and potential prognosis that a TNBC diagnosis brings with it. I am interested in hearing how other women are being treated with this diagnosis - as there isn't really much 'new' in the space of TNBC with trials and the like. I am being treated by Rick De Boer in Melbourne (St Vincent's Private).

It's a big, bad and scary term - but luckily for me I am not metastatic. I had to advocate for myself after initially attending and being told it was 'just' a cyst. I was told to repeat the ultrasound in 3-6 months. Two weeks later, I was in pain and felt the rapid change; the tumour had double in size and was now a grade 3 tumour. I thank my assertiveness every day for returning to the GP.

Reading through others stories, I am shocked that in 2023, women are still being missed and not offered biopsy in the first instance. I now know that the only way to truly diagnose a lump is through pathology. Lucky for me, I had pain in my boob (another misconception...'breast cancer is not normally painful'). 

Looking forward to connecting with you all. 

Elise x