@JenD Yes, going from healthy one day with no symptoms at all, to this news is like being run over by a truck.
Reading everyone's comments makes me feel less alone. I am so terrified. My first appointment with breast surgeon today and discussing it still brings me to tears (34 mm tumour, hormone positive, Her2 negative). She was lovely and calming but the fear of the unknown is debilitating. I am so anxious about finding out it may have spread. I am tentatively booked in for a lumpectomy (depending on MRI and PET scan results tomorrow) on 13 August.
You inspire me to just keep putting one foot in front of the other.