Yes the shock hits you like a truck. Who would’ve thought hey?
Mine is similar grade 2 stage 2 28mm IDC.
I had lumpectomy 4 weeks ago but DCIS remains so I have to have another surgery next week, going in the same incision.
Same surgeon, different hospital 🤷♀️
I had three nodes taken and they are all clear.
My current dilemma is chemo as I’m am in a “grey area” ( very annoying) benefits will be 3% but will probably not proceed.
I’ll wait til the second surgery is complete.
Will have radiation and will attempt hormone blockers.
But the only advice I have is try not to let it totally take over your life. Get info then back away.
The anxiety can be debilitating.
Also find someone who is on the same wavelength as you.
Helps to have each other to debrief and not compare but also understand.