Hi All, my intro post. Such a roller coaster of emotions and processing suddenly going from perfectly healthy to not!I had a Diagnosis 22/12/23 IDC with 2.9cm tumor and lymphnode involvement from BreastscreenSA. ER and PR +, Her -.(Xmas is harsh to get such news, both in the slow down of services and in telling nearest and dearest)It has taken a while (necessary tests, scans and byopsies), but looking at treatment beginning Wed 28/2/24 with surgery (partial masectomy, axillary node clearance). Then most likely chemo, radio, hormone therapy. Overactive imagination has been a problem, general stress/anxiety, and not sleeping well. It is settling a bit now, as Ive met surgeon and feel comfortable I am in good hands, met with Breast nurse (and now have a bright pink pillow and lovely accessories pouch for fluid tubes). I am participating in a clinic trial that I meet criteria on that I decided yes to assist.I am going ahead on a planned and booked holiday next week (which several family are also going), the surgeon was supportive on proceding with this as mental health positive. Then it is full steam ahead! I am fortunate to have supportive family, and some great friends, some who have had a bc journey themselves. Was concerned about work for a while, but Ive let the h.r. depts know (two jobs) of upcoming medical, and am scaling back for as long as I need (casual events hospitality - high energy, physical and customer facing, they will still be there when I can manage again!)So I think I am in about the best positive I can be for now! Not keen on whats to come, but ok to get on with what needs to be done! Thanks for reading, and thanks to all those sharing posts and info themselves - it has helped.

Yes, it's reassuring to get the clear scans. Once I had a plan in place for my ongoing treatment I felt much more in control, just have to get on and get it done. I am 51.

Hello @JenD, it is a shock to try and process something that is totally unexpected. I think I have a similar diagnosis. 2cm IDC with 1 lymph node involved, stage 2 grade 3 cancer, diagnosed in November. A lump was found on my first breast screen, no symptoms, so it all felt a bit unreal for a while, particularly as I felt perfectly healthy and fine. I had a lumpectomy and 3 lymph nodes removed, 1 involved, but no further clearance required. As the cancer is grade 3 and a higher risk for recurrence chemo, radiation therapy and hormone therapy is my road to travel. I too have had great support from family friends, work and a great team of people, from surgeon, oncologist, nurses and anyone else I've come in contact with. I've just finished my 4th round of AC treatment, I've been luckily to have fairly mild side effects, and no nausea, the oncologist said they are much better managing this now. There is lots of information available here, and people to answer questions, or just somewhere to find support and solidarity. Try and stay as positive as you can. Take one step at a time and look after yourself. Katie

@JenD I can really relate to your comment ‘how was I not aware that all this is happening inside’.I’ve seen the comment many times about how our fellow troupers have said how amazing they feel. I am in the best shape of my life, eating very well, super fit, looking after myself, then BAM!I’m looking at it telling myself that I am in the best position to beat this mother f&*$%. We got this.

@LJS I was a forward planner so stopping to take in one bit and not getting too far ahead was a big challenge. The first two months was very stressful, getting info needed and taking it day by day, test result by result and getting all the medical info on what might be the best way to tackle your diagnosis is first step, and it will all just start to flow from there. I figure thats the idea of this chat forum, if one persons post helps another person, its a great thing. Good days, bad days, its all ok as long as you can get a positive mindset in there. Keeping things achievable in the short term, as its all a bit out of control, which is hard.

All the best for your scans for tomorrow @LJS - your surgeon sounds like a keeper! Make sure you stay away from Dr Google - ONLY ask your Surgeon and breast care nurse (when given one) any of your queries (or put them up here) and we'll do our best to help you xxtake care & all the best

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Katie46
Member
2 years ago
Hello @JenD, it is a shock to try and process something that is totally unexpected. I think I have a similar diagnosis. 2cm IDC with 1 lymph node involved, stage 2 grade 3 cancer, diagnosed in November. A lump was found on my first breast screen, no symptoms, so it all felt a bit unreal for a while, particularly as I felt perfectly healthy and fine. I had a lumpectomy and 3 lymph nodes removed, 1 involved, but no further clearance required. As the cancer is grade 3 and a higher risk for recurrence chemo, radiation therapy and hormone therapy is my road to travel. I too have had great support from family friends, work and a great team of people, from surgeon, oncologist, nurses and anyone else I've come in contact with. I've just finished my 4th round of AC treatment, I've been luckily to have fairly mild side effects, and no nausea, the oncologist said they are much better managing this now. There is lots of information available here, and people to answer questions, or just somewhere to find support and solidarity. Try and stay as positive as you can. Take one step at a time and look after yourself. Katie
GorgyS
Member
2 years ago
Hi JenD.
It's quite a shock, especially a few days or weeks after the diagnosis, with all the scans of the body to check if the cancer has spread to other parts of the body. Once you start the treatment, including surgery, the shock will turn into a desire to go through the treatment. I received a similar diagnosis: Hormone-positive, Her2-negative, grade 3, BUT stage 3, as I had 14 lymph nodes involved and removed together with an 8 cm lump in the second surgery to remove margins. I managed with the lumpectomy and kept my breast as the lump was very close to the armpit. Anyway, I started chemo after I will have radiation and hormone blockers therapy. For the same reason, to prevent the cancer from recurrence. I would never have imagined that I would have so much strength to deal with this unexpected experience. Probably I got that from many women going through the same or similar journey.
Like Katie46, I have not had too many bad side effects from chemo, as they are managed by anti-nausea medication. I also take Somac for heartburn, and for constipation, I manage with senna tea. I try to eat well and prioritize myself. I stopped working immediately as I had 6 months of sick leave and Long service leave. However, I am going back to work from home after AC rounds. Once you have a schedule of your appointments and know what side effects you may have and how to manage them, you may feel too that some work would bring normality to this not really normal situation. Although I have support from family and friends, from the beginning, I took control of my situation by getting informed through BCNA and this network highly recommended by my medical team. I work well with McGrath nurses and my medical team.
All the best with your treatment, and we are here for each other.
JenD
Member
2 years ago
Stop and b.r.e.a.t.h.e. I keep reminding myself :). I am an organiser/planner by nature, so being in hold day by day is a new challenge! I am very grateful and relieved scans showed no spread to major organs. Grey area between stage 2/3 with local spread in nodes under arm and one in chest (containing cancer cells). This has all been part of assessment thru scans, needle biopsies etc so I feel the multi team is taking the time needed to agree on approach of treatment that will be best outcomes with whats going on in me. ( PS I am 54).
Katie46
Member
2 years ago
Yes, it's reassuring to get the clear scans. Once I had a plan in place for my ongoing treatment I felt much more in control, just have to get on and get it done. I am 51.
MrsMorrisey
Member
2 years ago
Yes the shock hits you like a truck. Who would’ve thought hey?
Mine is similar grade 2 stage 2 28mm IDC.
I had lumpectomy 4 weeks ago but DCIS remains so I have to have another surgery next week, going in the same incision.
Same surgeon, different hospital 🤷‍♀️
I had three nodes taken and they are all clear.
My current dilemma is chemo as I’m am in a “grey area” ( very annoying) benefits will be 3% but will probably not proceed.
I’ll wait til the second surgery is complete.
Will have radiation and will attempt hormone blockers.
But the only advice I have is try not to let it totally take over your life. Get info then back away.
The anxiety can be debilitating.
Also find someone who is on the same wavelength as you.
Helps to have each other to debrief and not compare but also understand.
JenD
Member
2 years ago
Surgery done (partial mx with lots of lymphnodes), with two nights in hospital and very nice to home again. Have fluid drain bag in tow and daily home nurse visits, with appt next week back at clinic to find out more on byopsy results and next treatments.
One day at a time!
arpie
Member
2 years ago
It is great to be home again - just make sure you don't 'accidentally' overstretch or anything .... it is often the 'automatic' things that can cause damage ..... picking up the grandkids, reaching up (or down) into kitchen cupboards .... hanging out the washing etc ..... delegate all those tasks! ;)

Whilst you 'while away your time' at home, recovering .... jump onto this thread & check out other areas of the forum that may interest you! We chat about gardens, our furkids, art & craft ... and we even have a couple of posts for 'giggles' ... At the bottom of the post are some 'tick sheets' that you can download - to chronicle your recovery - emotionally and physically. You can take them with you to your appointments xx
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-our-new-members#latest

Take care, recover well, and good luck with your results. And yes, take one day at a time x
JenD
Member
2 years ago
Thanks, I will have a look.

And yes the balance between behaving and overdo is pretty fragile, so definately need to pace myself! Still have numbness along back of arm, which is weird, and my anchor bag (fluid drain) keeps me grounded for now.
Blossom1961
Member
2 years ago
@JenD I still have numbness nearly seven years down the track
arpie
Member
2 years ago
Sorry @JenD - forgot to add the link! just added ;) Yep, make haste slowly xx