@Ginamae Sending you love & strength for Thursday. So good that you have been surrounded by a wonderful husband & great staff at the breast clinic.
Try not to stress too much as cancer feeds on stress so you will only make things worse. Dont over think at this early stage as the goal posts often change so you may find yourself worrying about a diagnosis or treatment that may never eventuate. Deal with what you do know & not what may happen down the track. easier said than done.
Get online & find a McGrath breast care nurse that lives near you. I found one early on in my diagnosis & I am so happy I did. I emailed her to introduce myself & sent her all the pathology/doctors reports so she knew what I was dealing with. They are highly trained so can answer all your medical & emotional questions & even talk to your family if they wish to talk to someone.
Take time for yourself & accept all offers of food/house cleaning as your family & friends will want to support you. Deep breaths & you will get there, one step at a time & we will all be here to support you. love & strength xx