Hi chipo, with so much stress surrounding you,the body goes into survival mode.You’ll do what you have to do to get through this awful time.Ofcourse,you will need lots of support from your husband, family, friends and counsellors.At first the Breast cancer diagnosis seems like a bad dream and then reality sets in and we fear the worst. I’ve had bc twice(2003 and 2010) and I’ve been cancer free and fine for the last 7 yrs.The majority of women WILL be ok,so please take some comfort in that.If you think you need a bc support group, I run one in the Hills area of Sydney. Tonya