Oh @Chipo
what a choice you have to make.... have made....
Do you know about the helpline ..... You can call them
Don't hesitate to call the helpline on 1800 500 258 and speak with one of the cancer nurses or breast care nurse.
It can be really helpful to talk about what is going on for you.
I am sure it has been a shock ...
I am sorry you have been put into this situation.
There is a young women group that could have others who have gone thru this choice.
http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/10-young-women