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Tam, So sorry you've joined our site :(  - it is an incredibly stressful time waiting for tests and results. Anxiety levels go through the roof but you've done the right thing coming on here and letting us know how you are feeling. We as a group understand the stress you are feeling. Just concentrate on one thing at a time, it is all too overwhelming if you try and deal with everything at once. When are you scheduled for your various tests, core biopsy? Just keep in mind you have been diagnosed and your team (who you will meet as you progress through treatment) are aiming to get you through this with the best possible outcome, they are totally on your side, as are we :) Do you have any income protection either through income protection insurance or through your superannuation??? Or a friend of mine was told she could claim centrelink sickness benefits for the time she was off work (I know - not much income wise but better than nothing!!)  I'm sure that the other ladies here will be able to add to suggestions to help you through. Keep us posted with how you are going.Xx Cath

Thank u, no super or income protection, has bone desity scan fri, cat and pet scans mon/ tue and they'll ring about biopsy ( i hope they give me a local first )

Hi Tam - take a deep breath - it is all so overwhelming but we are here to help you through.  Yes they will give you a local first for your biopsy.  The most important thing now is it has been detected and they are putting you through all the tests to determine the best possible treatment. 
Just concentrate on one test at a time and write notes and ask lots of questions, they are there to help you through and we are all here willing you through.
Take care

Hey Tam, no problems. I ended up having two core biopsies and I was given a local. I had a tumor 2.7cm with a second lesion which turned out to be benign. I also had three fine needle biopsies done at the same time. The fine needle biopsies I didn't even feel. One of the core biopsies was very painful (sorry but think it's best not to sugarcoat it!) and the second one wasn't painful at all. Other ladies on the site have suggested also taking 2 nurofen and  2 panadol together prior to going for the biopsies to add another layer of pain buffer - reckon I'd do that! And yes it seems like the tests will never end but they are getting a wonderful complete view of how your body, bones and system are dealing with the cancer before they commence treatment. This is so they do not miss anything and give you the best outcome possible. Xx

Hi Tam, It all happens really quickly at the start while the doctors are working out exactly what they are dealing with, but once you get a treatment plan it settles down a bit.  I think the uncertainty at the start is possibly the hardest bit.   Take some breaths and be kind to yourself. 

Hi Tam,
This is the worst time, not knowing enough and waiting for appointments.  It helps to keep busy - buy a notebook as your life is about to get very busy as treatment speeds up.  Take it with you everywhere and write down appointments, tips, questions, lists to buy, dates, etc.  Ask for copies of everything, especially pathology reports, and keep them in a file with all your medical expenses and receipts.  (this is a real help at taxtime).  Do you have your My Journey pack from BCNA yet?  It helps with everything you need to know and tips to get through it all from other pink sisters. We are here for you.  Just come online - often!  Trust your team - you will get to know them all well, and they are in your corner.  Big hug.  Michelle x

Welcome @Tam007 . I was able to claim against my life insurance as I had a trauma component...meant I could have half paid out. Meant a huge difference to us. The pain relief before the biopsy is a good idea but I would avoid nurofen as it is similar to aspirin and can increase bleeding. Panadeine probably better. This 1st part is very hard where all your emotions are on high alert and all of us understand that. The fear and anxiety is terrible. But it does get better knowing than not knowing. Also even if not confined to breast doesn't mean it is not treatable. ..many women live long lives despite this.  Hope all this part goes quickly for you. Most likely they will start with some chemo once they know the type from the biopsies to shrink the tumour before surgery. I am assuming this is invasive breast cancer (IDC or ILC) rather than DCIS which can be large areas but not into the breast tissue yet. As time goes on you get to be an expert in the different types of breast cancer. Ask for copies of your biopsies etc as this is helpful later.

Just wondering what is a sun contractor? 

Take Care. Kath x

Hello Tam007, so sorry you have had to join our group but you will find so much support and information here.
These first weeks are so surreal and we do feel as if everything is out of our control.  As many of the ladies have said, make notes of everything and ask lots of questions!  Knowledge is power.  I used the diary in My Journey pack to write down all the questions I could think of between appointments, no matter how naive or silly.  With so much to take in I could guarantee I would forget to ask something!  The core biopsy isn't pleasant but it is just a few moments in time for each one.  I had 3 done and each felt like I was being flicked with an elastic band.  A bit of pain for the next 24 hours and some bruising.  But it is also the start of you having a good understanding of your cancer and expected treatment.  All of us have had different experiences, different treatment and even different reactions to the same drug but what we do have in common is we have all had that feeling of disbelief upon diagnosis.   Sending you my best wishes in getting through the next few weeks - it does get easier when you have some plans in place.  Take care,  Jane xx

Thank you everyone , I first found this lump about 5 mth ago and was told it was nothing, I'm teffified it's to late for me and spread , I asked a gp for Valium as I'm a wreck , he said he doesn't prescribe s8? Drugs , I can't eat , can't sleep, I'm a shaking , sweating anxious wreck 

Hi Tam007. I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Have you heard about Cancer Council 13 11 20? 
It's a helpline for dealing with cancer. It may be worth a phone call, to help youget through the weekend. 
Take care, Lyn