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Mamajugs
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8 years ago

Recurrence after many years

It's my first time posting here so apologies if I am doing it wrong! 

I wanted to share my story so far and also get some advice.

I had breast cancer in 2003 at age 41. I found a lump myself, had lumpectomy and axillary clearance  and 2 days later mastectomy as pathology showed sattelite cancers around the main tumour. I had chemo but no radiotherapy and Tamoxifen for 5 years. 2 years later I had a silicone implant reconstruction.

4 weeks ago I found a lump next to my implant. Turned out to be a Rotters lymph node completely taken over by cancer. These nodes sit between the pectoral major and minor muscles and werent cleared at the original surgery.

I have had every scan/test available and there is no sign of distant metastases and the lump was removed last week. My dr thinks that it is from the original cancer cells left behind 14 years ago and grown slowly.

Now I am waiting for an oncology appt. I am reslly hoping I dont need chemo again, feel sick at the thought of it. I never had radiotherapy first time around....

Hubby and I have just retired and have our big overseas trip planned in August. Has anyone had any experience of delaying treatment for a few months? I would really love to have the trip first.


  • On the plus side the bc has been found and is treatable. With treatment you can enjoy many more years to come.
    On the downside a trip you very much want to take.  Hopefully treatment can be delayed but if not well so be it.
    I feel for you and wish things were different.

  • Once you're in that Oncologist office the timing will be clear as they are the experts.  When I saw my breast surgeon I had a major event coming up that I had organised and didn’t fit in with Breast cancer.  I wanted 2 weeks and he gave me 4 days. My pathology showed that the cancer had grown in those 4 days. Now I  mutter to myself but go with their direction. 
    Too many variables for us to give you the answer. Hopefully he'll say enjoy that trip and book in to see me upon your return. Best wishes 
  • It doesnt sound like the same agressive one I had and yours has taken years to be detected. Another few months probably won't hurt before treatment. Alter your diet and eat everything red or black which should help and not too many alcoholic drinks.