Thanks so much for all of your advice so far, I really appreciate it. My other scans so far are ok. I still have to have a CT scan tomorrow and an ultrasound next week to clip the tumour and look at the nodes and possibly clip them too. It feels a bit never ending. I'll find out more tomorrow from the oncologist. At this stage the plan is going to be to try and shrink it but that could change after other results and the onco visit.
Your reassurance and experience is great and @Eastmum I would like to take you up on private message and more info on hospitals, etc. My team work out of Concord and I'm hoping they're ok. If I end up going on the hormone therapy reduction plan and it is working then it could be 6 months before I need to decide on where to do the surgery so that could help with some planning.