I am So sorry to see you here @Dh5Wy83 ... Welcome to the club that no-one really wants to join! Here, You can raise ANY issue, and get helpful replies from those who’ve gone before you. Nothing is off limits. We have ‘private groups’ for some more personal discussions .... so feel free to join any of them, if they suit you.
Have you had your surgery and got your ‘game plan’?
you can put any word or phrase in the ‘search’ box of the Discussions page... and any previous threads where they’ve been mentioned will pop up to read.
I hope you are coping ok with this more recent diagnosis. :( It would be totally 100% ok to skip between anger, denial, sadness - but if your find the sadness is overwhelming you, please seek professional help! Your GP may be able to refer you ... or your local Breast Cancer Centre May have help there .... where you are more likely to find a bc specific psychologist. Just talking about it openly and sharing it with a professional should be able to give you coping mechanisms ... cos it mucks with your brain as much as your body!
That’s a really nasty double hit you’ve had ... how is that previous treatment going to affect your current treatment? Specially the radiation?
Difficult tho it may seem, Try & keep your sense of humour 'up there' - we have a really good 'funnies page' (called Friday Funnies, but we add them every day!!) Just click on the link to add pics and posts ...
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/19116/friday-funnies#latestIf you are into arts & crafts, we have a 'Creative Corner'
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/14979/creative-corner#latest and if into your garden, a Gardening post as well!!
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/comment/186078#Comment_186078We even have a funny Xmas page .... feel free to add any that you’ve seen!
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/20086/christmas-funnies-put-them-up-here-for-a-laugh#latestTry not to use Dr Google as there is just so much conflicting information out there, and every BC case is 'unique' and it may only scare the pants off you! :(
take care, you can do this xxx