So stressed Triple neg 5cm need positive stories

Hi again, so glad you are harvesting your eggs.  That's a good thing and you will be glad you did later.  Like you say then concentrate on your chemo and surgery. Recon is something you can think about later if you wish.  There are loads of us who have been down that path too.  Don't worry about getting back to everyone personally, we have all been where you are.  Just do what you have to do and we will be here for  you when you need us.
huge hugs
Paula xxx