Golly gosh, you've been thru a lot already, bradley I would have hoped they got clear margins on the 2nd surgery .... but sadly, not so. :( Only the pathologist could tell you if it was new growth ... Have you been given copies of both pathology reports? If not, I would be asking for them!
Have you been assigned a Breast Care Nurse that you can chat with? They may be able to help you with your queries too. To be honest, I think any 2nd opinion would probably suggest further surgery to get clear margins, as you don't want any of those nasty cells hanging around to create further chaos. :( Changing to another surgeon may also be the way to go, particularly if you aren't really happy with your current one not being open with you. It is very important that you are comfortable and confident that your surgeon is doing the right thing by you xx (I changed my Medical Onc very early in the treatment, for similar reasons.)
So sorry to see you joining the group that no one really 'wants' to join - It's good that you've found us, as this is the right spot for support & info from those who've 'been there, done that'! So hopefully we'll be able to smooth the way for your own treatment. Whack up ANY question - remember there are NO dumb questions!!! Make sure you take a trusted friend or family member with you to your appointments, as a 'backup set of ears', as it is difficult remembering everything that is said. Also, consider recording your sessions on your phone, so you can go over it again later, for the same reason. 😉
Mine was ILC - I was lucky to only have the one lumpectomy, radiation & tablets .... and have recently finished with the tabs after 7 years!
This diagnosis can really muck with your brain too - so if you feel sad, angry, distressed (which would be understandable given this 3rd lot of surgery xx) .... ask your GP (or your treating team) for a referral to see a counsellor .... or listen to Charlotte Tottman's podcast (link below). You can also ring our Helpline on 1800 500 258 for a confidential one-on-one chat xx
Charlotte Tottman is a BC specialist counsellor who was diagnosed herself, also had a double mastectomy, so knows EXACTLY what we've all been thru, both emotionally and physically! Her own reaction to her diagnosis was also quite different to what she 'thought' it might be, given that she'd been counseling women's reactions for some years before, so thought she 'new' what to expect! She is VERY easy to listen to, too xx
http://www.drcharlottetottman.com.au/my-podcast.html.
Raelene Boyle's video is also well worth watching!
https://www.bcna.org.au/resource-hub/podcasts/upfront-about-breast-cancer/upfront-about-breast-cancer/episode-21-raelene-boyle-on-pulling-herself-out-of-the-darkness/
There is HEAPS of info in the link below to help you navigate the blog and also some tools to evaluate your own physical and mental recovery thru your ongoing treatment! xx.
You can show us your garden, your pets, your art/craft, share your favourite recipes ..... as we delight in seeing everyone else is up to! xx
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussions/general-discussion/a-big-welcome-to-all-new-online-network-members-/222737
Take care & wishing you all the best for the next surgery xx