I know how you feel @GinGin because when I had my surgery the cancer in my lymph nodes was nicely contained, but the tiny amount of cancer that might have escaped to my chest muscles (and fed into my upper chest lymph nodes) meant they need to throw everything at me too, otherwise I might have got off more lightly. Like you I'm young :D at 54, but I'm an 'older Mum' with teenage girls plus I use hair dye so I probably come across even younger than I am :p .
PS: LGFB sound fantastic - I'm booked for a physical workshop so will apparently receive the goodie bag there. Just hoping the docs won't try to book any conflicting appointments!