@Barney74 Hoping to keep my hair similar to what it is and not freaking the kids out are the only reasons I'm bothering with the cold cap. Otherwise, I'd go bald (with maybe some henna tattoos).
@kmakm I said to my surgeon originally that I needed 6 years, wanted 10 - he said, make it 30 at least. I really do wish that I knew whether the chemo and rads are really necessary. If there's cancer cells floating around, then I'm happy to do it but the thought that maybe I'm poisoning and burning my body for no reason is more than depressing.