Hi there @kmakm I know this was supposed to be about the cold caps experience but I’m so pleased you’ve opened up to us on here. As @Sister says life can certainly be a shit storm and it sounds like it’s been raining not only from the sky but also through the walls at your place too. I hope you use the resources available to you for your dad and your family. I’m sure you’ve researched what’s available for your dad but I work as a nurse In a gp clinic and do have info on support that your dad can get that could help you including respite options. And I’m sure your local breast cancer support group, bc nurse, or social worker, or the cancer council could help you also with support. Let me know If you need any help and I’m happy to advise you if I can. Just PM me about it if you like. Please also take any help offered by other family or friends too if they offer its because they want to help so take that for granted if you can. I bet you look awesome bald I have a big potato head so not such a good look for me at the time lol. Hubby used to call me Spud. Lol. And I agree with @Zoffiel it really is amazing how resilient you can be when you need to be. You’re doing a bloody good job love. But don’t forget to outsource the support though if you need it. Margie xxx