Diagnosed stage3, grade3, her2 positive
J_Nelly
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A wild trifecta but I am determined to beat this as I have a young son who depends on me. This has to be the scariest journey of my life and I’ve been through a handful.
Looking for fellow thrivers who have tips on handling chemotherapy. I start on the 27th of December and have 6 rounds before surgery. I hear protein is important and doing some sort of activity daily (short walk) to help no matter how tired we get.
Overall a lot of moments feel surreal, scary and lonely but also trying to remain present and positive.
Overall a lot of moments feel surreal, scary and lonely but also trying to remain present and positive.
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Hi @J_Nelly
I was like you this time last Christmas - diagnosed HR+ and HER2+, starting 6 rounds of TCHP chemo on 29 Dec before surgery. I was 47 with two teens.
It is a crazy and stressful time, but you will get through this. I was relieved to start chemo because it felt like I was doing something to fight back. My tips for chemo are:
- take books, crosswords or a laptop for movies as your first session is likely to be all day (the next sessions will take less time)
- take snacks and a big water bottle
- you can move around while having chemo, just ask the nurse and take your IV trolley with you!
- consider cold capping (I didn't do it and lost all my hair, although it is slowly growing back now!)
Always check with your oncologist before taking anything, but for home afterwards:
- get Oral 7 mouthwash and spray (I had the spray by my bed and gave myself a squirt if I woke up with a dry mouth)
- get eyedrops for dry eyes
- drink lots of water (during and after chemo)
- use Hydrolyte etc if you can't stomach water
- eat mild foods (not spicy) whenever you can
- get some Sustagen if you are losing weight
- use Metamucil (I got capsules because I can't stand the texture of the drink)
- use Gastrostop if you get diarrhea
- keep up the exercise if you can
Try to enjoy your Christmas, hug your son lots and feel free to ask any questions xx0 -
Hi @J_Nelly
sorry to hear of your diagnosis - it’s a hard and stressful time but you will get through it!
I was diagnosed mid July with triple positive dc - same as @Suki, also 47 years old. Finished my 6 rounds of TCHP mid November and this week had my surgery.
I second all @Suki’s advice.I didn’t cold cap either - have some growth starting now 5 weeks post chemo. I’m probably glad I didn’t as I didn’t want to add time to the infusions but I’m sure others who have will be able to advise you better.When it comes to exercise, walking daily (whatever you can manage) and yoga (if you don’t have a current practice gentle stretching or mindful movement) was hugely helpful. Reminding yourself to breathe is an excellent way to stay centred and helps both physically and mentally. Insight timer has free meditations.
the cancer coach I saw recommended prioritising protein and I ate as well as I could but I did find it hard - protein didn’t taste great for me - plant based was a bit better than meat based. She also told me that at the end of the day eat whatever you feel like or can. It’s temporary and you can focus on your diet when the chemo bit is over.
sending you positive thoughts and big hugs xx1 -
@Suki thank you! Tips taken! I’ve bought some matcha and protein supplements to help. I’ll grab some Metamucil, eyedrops and mouth wash, then I’ll grab the rest depending on what I might need. Hugging the little one as I write this and appreciating the moments a lot more than usual. Thanks again Suki.0
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Hi @J_Nelly in addition to the above wonderful support, I thought to share with you some of the information we often share via the BCNA Helpline:
You may like to access BCNA’s My Journey available online. This resource provides high quality, evidence-based information which can be tailored to your diagnosis and provides insights from others with breast cancer (It also has a symptom tracker).
Chemotherapy treatment for early breast cancer
Side effects of chemotherapy
Ten tips to manage chemotherapy for breast cancer
Cancer Council
Cancer Council also have a very good resource Understanding Chemotherapy booklet0 -
Thanks @iserbrown I did check that this one was compatible with chemotherapy but I’ll check again with my dietician and oncologist. I’ve also stopped my usual vitamin d and b6 etc for now.0
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I’m very glad chemo is done! Sadly I ended up getting an infection under one of my ‘chemo nails’ and landed myself in hospital for 6 days with surgery to have the nail removed which was a real shame because I was feeling pretty good and looking forward to a week off everything before the surgery I just had😅
which is something to keep in my mind. Keep your nails short and clean and use hardner. Some people paint theirs but I wanted to be able to see if there was a problem - and even then I missed catching this one!
During chemo I really focussed on one day at a time, walking, yoga and trying not to look too far ahead or read too much about anything to do with the cancer. I wfh a few hours a week and was lucky to have good flexibility to do so.Everyone’s experience is slightly different - a diary will help you so you can map out how you feel each round. Helps you to be prepared and give info to your team if you need some help. There’s lots they can do to help minimise any side effects you might get and they want you to get through with as little impact as it’s possible to have si never hesitate to ask for help with anything.Chemo isnt fun but is absolutely doable - youve got this!2
