Scared stiff

Thankyou everyone it’s a shit life at the moment but you know what tomorrow is another day we will beat this hideous disease one way or another 😃

Thinking of you and your family, @Glynnis .... got fingers & toes crossed for good news xxx

@Glynnis , I just don't know what to say. You and your boy , you're in my thoughts . Xxxxxx

Hugs Glynnis 

FFS....enough for  one family. I'm hoping for good news to come to you both soon. X

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Wow @kmakm your one busy lady, but that’s fantastic doesn’t leave much thinking time which is good, I’ve been playing in my cave for a while today so feel a little better tomorrow is another day think I might put those walking shoes on and get some fresh air thanks for our chats been terrific 😃

Walking is good for me and I do it a lot, but sometimes it leaves too much space for thinking! If I've got a problem to solve it's great. This time last year I was walking almost daily and going backwards and forwards and backwards and forwards on whether to have a double mastectomy and reconstruction or not (I did).  So now a podcast is good when my brain is too noisy.

I'm trying to work in some yoga for some de-stressing now. Epic fail this morning when I failed to observe the correct starting time and missed it...

I like baking. Add the cricket on the radio and it's my happy place. I'm fully engaged in what I'm doing and there's no space for my noisy brain to shout negative stuff at me. Currently on the hunt for the perfect oatmeal choc chip biscuit recipe in the quest to find a biscuit for the kids that's vaguely healthy.

I love my stories, so watch a bit of tv. But I tend to feel too idle if I do that too long, so I like to do some cross stitch embroidery or mending while I have the tv on.

I also love a big puzzle, 1500 - 3000 pieces. Can't think about anything else when you're doing a puzzle.

And nothing beats a good book of course! K xox

@kmakm love most things crafty but need to lose weight as well so I think I might dtart walking again, gets me out in the fresh air. What about you what do you do 

I don't think it's reasonable to expect yourself to cope @Glynnis You've been told you have metastatic cancer,  how the hell does one 'cope' with that? It's a bloody nightmare and more power to you that you are even trying to rationalise it.

I think we learn early how to deal with distress in our personal way. Me, I either have a massive tanty then get ice cold clinical or do the clinical first and the tantrum later. Can't get through any of life's disasters without employing both tactics. I just wish I could either drop the tantrum or better deploy it. I'm trying; rather than salvaging something with a heartbeat or pointlesslly thrashing around yelling, I try to channel that energy into beating up my wood pile. That 'personal growth' is a work in process.
I'm so sorry this has happened. Mxx