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breastscreen saw something so I had biopsies last Wednesday, my gp was supposed to get the results by Monday, got a ph call from breastscreen to say the pathologist wanted to do more staining and my gp would get the results on Tuesday so I should see him Wednesday. and Im so depressed and scared and such about the whole thing. wouldn't be so bad but theres just me and my autistic daughter left now , friends I thought I had I dont and not a friendly neighbourhood I tried when we came here but was ignored. I have never felt so alone in my life
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Know that we are here for you whenever you need. No question too silly.
@SoldierCrab has 2 autistic sons aas do e a number of members that also know life is already a struggle. We have pretty effective treatment available and the process about that will start after you get your results. Take care. Kath x
Below are a couple of links to help you find your way around the forum and also how to find a breast care nurse and how to order a MY journey Kit if you haven't got one yet.
It can be a whirlwind when we first get a diagnosed.... Breathe and take it one step at a time.
How to post on the main forum – use this link to get to the main forum and begin a new post. https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/post/discussion
Navigating the online community formerly the what and how thread.
http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/14879/navigating-the-online-community-formerly-the-what-and-how-thread
Breast Care Nurses
https://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx
My Journey online tool and other resources.
My Journey Online Tool resources
https://myjourney.org.au/hp/step5
https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/
BCNA Helpline 1800 500 258
If you have any questions, concerns or require any further information or support please call 1800 500 258. BCNA’s helpline will now be open from 9am-6pm Monday to Thursday and 9am to 5pm Fridays.
How to understand your pathology reports
https://www.cancer.org/treatment/understanding-your-diagnosis/tests/understanding-your-pathology-report/breast-pathology/breast-cancer-pathology.htmlWelcome to the forum (altho no-one is here by choice!)
Any question that you may have - whack them up here & you'll get a pretty honest answer!
Hopefully your actual diagnosis won't be too bad .... it is so easy for us to jump to the worst conclusions (or jump onto Dr Google when every case is just so different) - but try not to. One foot in front of the other just now ..... one day at a time.
Where abouts are you (City/town) - we may have members who can fill you in on local resources and backup.
Do you have anyone to go with you to the appointments with your GP (or assuming you will need it) surgeon? Having a buddy or relative with you will make a huge difference to understanding what is going on - or even record it on your phone for later use. Ain't none of us here by choice - but we ARE here to help you get thru this!! xx
Take care, and keep us in the loop ..... we are here to help you work thru this xx
I spent my early years in Nambour (my Dad was the dentist there in the 50s) and my sister lived up on the ranges for decades! Magic spot!
I reckon there would be Community Aid up there that would assist with transport etc .... I have a buddy up near there who is BC clear for 5 years - I'll ask what she knows. xx I am not sure where Morayfield is? It is not a town/suburb I am familiar with.
Take care xx
'Predictive grief' is a phrase my psychologist uses and urges me not to do! Easy to say but harder to do I know... Being prepared is one thing but anticipating troubles that may never happen is no way to live. So focus on today, take some deep breaths (it settles the nervous system) and be kind to yourself.
Being diagnosed with breast cancer interrupts our lives no end. It was pretty disastrous in my house (click on my @name to read my story). It's always disruptive, be it for a few weeks or a year. However it's a very well oiled treatment machine and there are huge amounts of support and services available. And if you're diagnosed and undergo treatment, you'll be surprised how quickly it becomes routine.
So hang in there. Big hug, K xox