So sad

I agree this network is a wonderful place to be able to say all the things that people without breast cancer just do not understand. We can support and respond to each other with empathy because we all face similar situations. There does seem to be a lot of younger women on this site. Obviously not everyone with breast cancer uses the network though, so maybe we get an unbalanced picture of the proportion of younger and older ladies being diagnosed. I am not sure if the proportion of younger women being diagnosed is rising or whether it is just the overall rate of women being diagnosed is growing every year. Whatever the case I agree that no woman should have to go through this and I wish they could find out more about this disease to prevent so many of us getting it in the first place. The risk factors are not making sense to me. The age risk does not explain why young women get it and I for one had none of the other risk factors except that I was a woman and getting older (47). I exercised regularly, was a healthy weight, had my children before I was 30. I breast fed them for over 12 months each, did not smoke, was not on the pill for long periods and did not drink anymore than many and had actually not had alcohol for several months prior to diagnosis because I wanted to be healthier! I have read so many other people's stories who say much the same thing. The one thing I have found is that many women diagnosed have been through a stressful event within the 12 months prior to diagnosis. Yet the experts say that stress does not cause cancer! We just have to deal with what we are facing but with 2 young daughters I really hope they find some answers to prevent more young women facing the same fate. Take care. Deanne xx