Wanted someone who cares!

Hi there @Sam09. BC has a huge range of different emotions for everyone involved. I think your family are taking you for granted and you should tell your daughter especially how cancelling your days out hurts you so much you are just trying to make every day count like we all do no matter what stage our cancer is and you want to take advantage of the fact that you don’t look or feel sick as such. I think you need to be a bit more selfish and start to do things that make you happy. Perhaps there is a hobby for example you can take up that gets you out of the house and where you can make new friends ?  Where abouts do you live love ? Is there a BC support group you can join or interact with ? I help with the fundraising with my local one and it’s great for me for example. I also think perhaps some counselling might help too. It will give you the tools to manage your emotions better and how to talk to your family  when they are being inconsiderate and selfish and how better to deal with their “brushing you and how you’re feeling” under the carpet. If you happen to be in brisbane north side let me know. Biggest hug. Margie xx