Your Mum sounds amazing,and so do you!!!I have a precious daughter who is 24.She helped me through my diagnosis and treatment.I don't have secondaries,but I do know,that these days,women live for many,many years after a secondary diagnosis.I am sure that lots of ladies will come on here and tell you their experiences.This blog is always a bit quiet on the weekend,but during the week it picks up!!! Secondary BC is treated as a chronic disease,and there are so many ladies on here that carry on working,or with their day to day lives,once they have their medications all worked out.Please stay in touch,and try to stress a little less:) There is no answer to ' why me?'.We have all asked ourselves this,and unfortunately it is just what it is.I think that we should try to think about now lucky we are to live in a country like Australia,where treatment is THE BEST in the world.Take care,and try if you can,to look at this as a bump in the road,not the end of the road.Sending you a big cyber hug[[[ ]]] xoxRobyn
