Christmas emotions
This was my first Christmas with cancer and it definitely felt different. I have been pretty good lately about not worrying about the future but I was quite emotional Christmas morning. I kept thinki...
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mel51 Afraser is right it’s easier to live in the present or just the immediate future. I’ve tried to plan ahead and when I do a spanner gets thrown in the works. Not worth the disappointment.
There will be times when you will feel like can I get a break from all this crap but with The help of BCNA family and a check in with psychologist just to unload can reset the thinking. Its been Nearly 10 years for me 6years with mets. Staying on top of our mental health is important. You’re in early stages of this road so all those thoughts are very normal. As Cath said various special occasions will bring those thought to front of mind. Just enjoy the moments and make memories.
I don’t look for the light at the end of the tunnel anymore just the daylight coming through my blinds in the morning and think whats one thing can I accomplish today or what mischief can I get up to.
I like the quote “don’t die before you die” theres lots of meaningful quotes etc on here check out Wise Words and for a giggle look at Friday funnies can lift a bad mood as well
All best for 2026
Thanks cranky_granny, lately it has been exactly like that - when will I get a break from this crap, with side effects & things going wrong & the bloody menopause!! I have been seeing a counsellor which is really helping, but I just didn't forsee the emotions that would come with Christmas. But as you say, find joy in the small things. Best wishes.