I had a couple of buddies who didn’t step up to the plate which really surprised me .... but the ones who did ...MORE than made up for those who didn’t.
I think some just don’t know what to say, so say nothing at all ... and don’t realise the hurt they’ve caused.
Maybe they think that we/I am STRONG ... but even having been thru My husband’s cancer ... when it happens to YOU ... it is still like a sledgehammer to the head!!
I am just so grateful for all my ‘new’ buddies, specially here on BCNA .... cos everyone ‘gets it’!
So thanks for being there, friends XX
So true and yes And we can vent here which really helps xx