I think the grocery list of my problems, with the appropriate written records and assessments got me over the line. I have early cataracts, peripheral neuropathy in both lower legs as well as hands....if I can't see my legs, I have no idea where they are, and hence use a four wheeled granny walker outside the home. If I managed to overcome those issues, the fact that (aside from the cancer...NED at the moment), I also have three severe autoimmune disorders. One of them requires that I take warfarin (blood thinner) daily and that my INR levels are between 3.5 and 4. That basically means the slightest injury results in severe bruising and if I went to ground or whacked my head, a brain bleed or internal bleed were very definate possibilities. We also have the small matter of severe osteoporosis, which has blessed me with three separate rib fractures...all without a fall or injury. So if I fell, I'd either bleed or break, or both...take your pick. Then the other matter of my two stuffed shoulders came to the fore. Other members might remember this other saga, where the best I can do is perform my "demented penguin" routine. I can flap my arms from the elbows, but reaching up to scratch my head, or, heaven forbid, try to break a fall, would be impossible. But the best of the best is as follows. This shoulder (and the elbows to a lesser degree) mean that although I can only just blot the dewdrops off my daisy when going to the loo, reaching the ...ummm. back door is an impossibility. I can tickle my cheeks, but getting to the bottom of the matter, so to say, is not on. After such activities, I have to shower to sort it out. Then my long suffering husband has to help dry and dress me. I pointed out to the social worker that I thought there were few places of employment who would take on the risk or that they would have a co worker at hand to wipe my bum. I think the last was the winner.
Alliejay Oh your journey has not been nice to you at all. I am so sorry you have been through this and still going through it. I am glad you pointd out to the social worker about limited places of empolyment and it sounds very limited to what you can do and they should take this into consideration. The last comment definately would have woken them up to the fact you are serious. I am glad you got over the line and they approved it for you. Thinking of you and thank you for sharing your journey. talke care xo