Hi Celeste, well done, it truly is one day at a time until you blink and it's one year at a time. My daughter is born halloween (my little witch, haha) she is 17 yrs old this year but I remember her 13th as I was bald i fitted right into her scary theme,lol, but I think of the positive side and know that several of the mums picking up their kids went for health checks that year, so if our journey makes others more aware then just goes to show that some good can come from something so bad. Party on, will be thinking of you on the 31st, good health...Kaz