Hi Michelle
I am going for Genetic Testing on 17th June. It took quite a while to get an appointment! I have had BC twice (two separate cancers), one at 35yrs and one at 42yrs, and my cousin in the UK was also diagnosed before the age of 40. My grandmother also died from breast cancer, although because she was in her 60's that apparently doesn't increase my risk.
I have two boys and although rare in men I know that if I test positive it could have implications for them. I read somewhere that if you carry the gene and pass it on to a male child, then it increases their chances of getting not only breast cancer but also prostate cancer and testicular cancer. I also have a younger sister, who has had no problems so far. She has two daughters though and is very keen for both me and herself to be tested (she can only be tested if my result comes back positive).
It is such a big decision but with the counselling etc that is available they make sure that you are ready for the decision when you make it and understand what the ramifications are. I had to fill out a huge questionaire and they gave me a big booklet about genetic testing too. When I go in to see them in June, I will have to see a counsellor before they give me the test and then I will have to go back to see them to go through the results.
I have decided to have the test done and then I will leave it up to my children as to whether they want to be tested or not. Ultimately it is their choice and, even with my sister and her daughters, the decision as to what to do if you carry the gene is a very personal one. Some people are quite happy to have a prophylactic mastectomy where others opt for increased testing and monitoring. I know that if I test positive that my sister can have MRI scans rather than just relying on the mammograms. These are supposedly more reliable at diagnosing BC.
The thing that worries me is if I get an inconclusive result. I have already decided that if I carry the gene then I will have my ovaries removed. But, if it is inconclusive, then what?
It is all so hard but I guess we just need to take one step at a time. I hope all went well for you yesterday and am sorry that I didn't make it on here in time before you went to your doctor.... Let us know how you went,
Louise x