I was diagnosed 20/7/16, met the surgeon 26/7 and had surgery on 1/8. I was glad to have a little time to sort things out at work plus have 5 days at home. While my husband was at work I had a big spring clean, did lots of cooking and freezing, shopped for hospital bits & pieces and caught up with some girlfriends. It's not easy whether we have time to prepare or have quick surgery. Just waiting is the hardest part - when you have a date you will manage your time in whatever way you need to get through the wait.
Take care, Jane xx