thanks everyone I have finally heard from the breast care nurse and she so far has been wonderful.I told her my concerns and she has spoken to people higher up and has now suggested another surgeon who may be a better fit for me and as she said if she had to have this he would be the one she would want doing it.She explained things much clearer and explain its a ALH at this point but be prepared incase it comes back as nasty,Fingers crossed and thank you lovely ladies for the advice and words of support it has helped,,