Hi Melinda!
Great words..it really is helpful to hear from others who 'get it' and have been through or still going through this crappy stuff! Yes, I am finding out more & more about myself & I'm slowly ploughing through the emotions and as you said, redefining myself. Everything is put into perspective & I feel more grateful for the wonderful things in life :smiley:
But yes...it certainly IS tough!!
Well, I really do wish you a very lovely Christmas and all the absolute best for your upcoming surgery..Big breath..
You've got this too! Big hug to you, Lisa X <3