Hi LuluJoy,
You have come to the right place for support , so firstly welcome.
None of us want to be here, but in saying that you will find a wealth of knowledge and emotional support when needed.
I was diagnosed with TNBC in October 2018, I had a partial mastectomy. ( I also questioned a double mastectomy with my surgeon), was also told that it wasn’t necessary due to early diagnosis. I also had no lump and it was picked up in a routine two yearly mammogram, so I was blown out of the water when I was told I had BC, seeing there is no history in the family.
Surgery, Chemotherapy and Radiotherapy, after a year I have finished all treatment and getting my energy levels back again.
Had my first yearly mammogram after diagnosis and treatment, was given the all clear in both breasts.
If you want to talk anytime, you can pm me privately.
Wishing you all the best, take one day at a time, Be kind to yourself, rest when needed and accept help when offered.
Sending hugs xx