Just need to talk to someone
I’m 59yo and newly diagnosed with breast cancer. I’m really not sure I get what is going on either because I’m just slow or it’s just not all clear yet so I feel confused, in total panic and th...
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Thankyou for posting your discussion CrazyDogLady67 – while we wait for other people to share their experience and offer their insights. We wanted to assure you that it makes a lot of sense that you’re feeling confused, panicked, and overwhelmed right now.
Many people tell us that in the early days after a breast cancer diagnosis it can feel like everything is happening at once, with too much information and not enough time to take it in. There is nothing “slow” about you, this is a very normal response to a life‑changing situation and it’s okay that things don’t feel clear yet.
You’re not expected to understand everything all at once. For most people, clarity comes gradually and plans start to form. If you’ve been assigned a breast care nurse at the hospital, they can be a really important person to talk things through with helping explain what’s happening, answering questions, and being a steady point of support. If you haven’t yet been linked in with a breast care nurse, you may find the Find a McGrath Cancer Care Nurse Near You helpful in locating a nurse near you who can provide free, ongoing support.
We (BCNA) also has resources designed to support people who are newly diagnosed. Many people find it reassuring to work through information at their own pace:
- My Journey – a trusted, step‑by‑step resource that provides clear information tailored to where you’re at, from diagnosis onwards
- Getting through the first few weeks (article)
- You may like to watch BCNA’s Webcast: Just diagnosed - what’s next?
- BCNA's Helpline (1800 500 258) – to talk things through with someone who understands, when things feel like too much and can offer further resources to support you
Support is available and know that you are not alone.