SO sorry to hear your diagnosis. .. my ILC was found early and in Jan I had breast conserving surgery/lumpectomy followed by radiation and now hormone tabs. Difficult tho it is, try not to 2nd guess the process. The waiting for results is hell .... and we hope you get clear margins. Xx
Lean on your family and friends. .. let them help you out with chores like shopping and meals etc (if they offer.)
Take some good earplugs into hospital with you as well as an eye mask to help you sleep (like they give you on planes) as they are noisy well lit places!
Everyone's recovery time and treatment differs, so try not to use Dr Google ... it will do your head in.
All the best for your surgery snd results .... take care and we will be thinking of you xxxx