Hi @suzie82,
Sorry for your difficulties. It is hard to get your head around and you dont have to process it all at once.
I wish you the best and send you a virtual hug.
Re financial there are a lot of services out there. The Cancer Council rang me one day and offered to pay $250 off a utility bill. Their nurses are very good and helpful. They probably know who can help. You can just give them a call and tell them about what has happened. There are different numbers for each state.
You can also look up a Breast Care Nurse in your area. Just use the mcgrath website to find that. Mine knew of some services and ordered my look good feel good pack from the cancer council.
Michelex