@Shelley_H
Taking one thing at a time, one day at a time is hard but it’s also the most sensible way. You can spend a lot of time thinking about things that never happen.
We all respond to treatment differently but after a mastectomy I worked through 6 months of chemo quite easily - chemo can be rough but not for everyone. I took on a new challenge 12 months after diagnosis. A supportive employer makes everything easier.
@nicmaree
It’s all nightmare territory to begin with, same advice, one day at a time! Much as we may all prefer never to know, early detection is good.
Most of what preoccupies your medical team will be about your body, right and proper. But a cancer scare or diagnosis sets off all sorts of emotional reactions too. There is enormous sense in getting some professional help
in how you respond emotionally, your GP can assist.
Best wishes to you both.