Dear @Beatha
Confusion is about the most normal reaction you can have. Yes, if there is a breast care nurse available, make the request. Is there someone who can go with you to consultations? Research shows that in the early days of diagnosis, the capacity to retain let alone understand everything discussed at a consultation is quite low. Someone not so intimately affected to take notes and ask questions can be invaluable. What’s important to you is to understand the nature of your cancer, the likely recommended treatments and the possible side effects. It’s important to know that not all patients get even common side effects. Your GP may be helpful but remember he/she is not a cancer expert. And cancer is not all one thing.
Treatment can be very effective, not all side effects are difficult, don’t be put off about getting information - some find it easier with limited information, but I wanted to know as much as I could. We are all different. Take heart, and reclaim your confidence in yourself! Best wishes.
