Hi @kato79 - just sit back and take a breath. One day at a time. It might be a good idea to wait until you have some more info so you can tell your family at the same time that there is a plan. It is an awful time of the year to get that news and you don't want to stress them or yourself too much. Due to the festive season many specialists do take time off so you may not get treatment too quickly so try to relax until you have more information.
Do join the Reconstruction group, a private group on here, as there is a heap of info there as well as stories and photos. Your options for reconstruction will depend on different factors so read up and have questions ready for your medical team.
This is the link to the group so apply to join:
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/1-choosing-breast-reconstructionYou are stronger than you think and will get through this - come on here with questions and to get support or just to vent.
Thinking of you 💖💖