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TJ_77
2 years agoMember
Hi there,
I read your post with such sadness knowing that you're here too, so i wanted to reach out.
I'm also a first time mum, i got my diagnosis in July, just two days prior to my little ones first birthday, so our bubs are a similar age, and it sucks (well i would use stronger words, but...). I'm having a mastectomy in October, so have been spending the last few weeks weaning fun times!
Prior to getting the news i was already struggling with motherhood, especially the invisible load, and found a lot of help in a podcast series https://www.momwell.com/category/invisible-load https://www.momwell.com/blog/carrying-the-mental-load-how-to-redistribute-the-burden-and-give-moms-more-freedom
Throwing a new cancer diagnosis & treatment on top of that is enough to throw anyone over the edge so i do hope you've managed to find a good support team.
I ended up just sending links to my husband of episodes i wanted him to hear, including the BCNA Ep 10 Stuart Diver's one
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2TknNUcxvW4Y7xaU6WPy3A
Please know I'm standing by your side on this one <3
I read your post with such sadness knowing that you're here too, so i wanted to reach out.
I'm also a first time mum, i got my diagnosis in July, just two days prior to my little ones first birthday, so our bubs are a similar age, and it sucks (well i would use stronger words, but...). I'm having a mastectomy in October, so have been spending the last few weeks weaning fun times!
Prior to getting the news i was already struggling with motherhood, especially the invisible load, and found a lot of help in a podcast series https://www.momwell.com/category/invisible-load https://www.momwell.com/blog/carrying-the-mental-load-how-to-redistribute-the-burden-and-give-moms-more-freedom
Throwing a new cancer diagnosis & treatment on top of that is enough to throw anyone over the edge so i do hope you've managed to find a good support team.
I ended up just sending links to my husband of episodes i wanted him to hear, including the BCNA Ep 10 Stuart Diver's one
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2TknNUcxvW4Y7xaU6WPy3A
Please know I'm standing by your side on this one <3