OMG!!!! Thank you everyone so so much. I posted not really thinking I would get so many wonderfully helpful and compassionate replies - I thought I would just vent - but I can see now how wonderful you all are and I feel so much better already - "foggy brain" still very real. You guys are amazing and I now know I have to stop thinking about others for a while and concentrate on me. I do feel bad for my Year 12 daughter though but she has done nothing but reassure me all is good. I'm going to take that as a win!!!! Thank thank thank you!! xx