So sorry to see you join the club that no-one every thought they'd join @Gazgin12 xx
It is a tough call ..... I'd suggest that you join both our Reconstruction Group, and the 'Flat Chat' group, who have elected to go without recon. I believe they have pics of before & after - which may help you in your decisions, from those who've gone before you xx You can ask ANY question - and only the MEMBERS can see them, as these are private groups. xx
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/29-flat-chat-no-breast-reconstructionhttps://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/1-choosing-breast-reconstructionI was lucky & altho prepared to lose a breast, my surgeon was pretty sure he'd be able to just do a lumpectomy, so I never had to 'make' that decision, myself.
take care - and feel free to check out other areas of the forum too - some will make you laugh (and we all need a laugh!) .... You can also show us your hobbies, art & craft, gardens, pets - all sorts of things that you may enjoy doing! xx. there are lots of tips on what to take to hospital & other things too xx
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-new-online-network-members#latesttake care & all the best with your ongoing appointments xx