Keeping family and friends informed

@Jo_H it was a completely genuine question, not a judgment. I took from your post that you were perhaps feeling a bit overwhelmed/uncertain about communication in the broad and was just wondering whether you felt obliged to share en masse but were unsure whether you wanted (or had the energy) to.  Noting also that some people have mentioned some regret at initial very broad messaging. It has absolutely nothing to do with caring about people. But it can be worth considering whether it’s what you actually want rather than what you feel others expect. It can also mean that it becomes very difficult to ever talk about anything else.