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AnnieMichelle_1's avatar
2 years ago

Just diagnosed this week

Hi Everyone
I am so relieved to have a place to go for support that is real as my world is turned upside down.  It has been a whirlwind. I was diagnosed on Wednesday 28th of June. Since seeing my GP ten days ago, life has been turned upside down, shaken, spun and swirled. I am 62 years old and after my best friend was diagnosed and treated earlier this year, I was prompted to do some self checking and went to my GP to have a lump checked out.
  
Initially, she thought it was benign and told me to have an ultrasound and a diagnostic mammogram and book to see her in a few weeks. Therefore, I figured it was not urgent and followed her advice and did the testing and saw her one month later. The results showed a suspicious lump and I was totally floored as the wheels began to move quickly and I was referred to Epworth Melbourne Breast Clinic as well as the Womens Hospital in Melbourne. I took the earliest appointment I could and met with a caring breast surgeon one week later. I had a biopsy this Monday and was diagnosed with early breast cancer on Wednesday. The lump is graded at one and the rate of growth is very slow. No chemotherapy is indicated. 
I will be having a lumpectomy in two weeks and then, radiotherapy daily for one month. Hormone blockers have also been advised as I have too much oestrogen and progesterone post menopause. 
I am shifting in and out of reality with this diagnosis. With no family history or risk factors.....it has truly thrown me for six. I am very grateful to my beautiful family and two loving close friends. I can't thank the BCNA hotline and fabulous community enough. I am popping in every day to steady myself and come to a sense of reality that this is truly happening. 
I would really appreciate your support and encouragement. 
AnnieMich
  • @AnnieMichelle_123 I recently had a similar experience. No one expects a cancer diagnosis, and it will take you a little while to come to grips with it. And everything moves so fast once there is even a suspicion of cancer it makes your head spin. You'll go through all the emotions - sadness, anger, denial, grief. Give yourself time to go through it - don't try to predict what will happen, just take each bit of information as it comes and work with your medical team to take it step by step. However you're in great hands with Epworth Melbourne Breast Clinic - they have looked after me since my diagnosis in January. An amazing and caring surgeon and oncologists. Best of luck with your treatment.
  • Hi cjee99 
    Thank you so much for your empathic and very reassuring message. It is helpful to know what I am experiencing is normal and that I am not alone. Being out of comfort zone these past many weeks has been very challenging and at times, very distressing. Thank you so much for the reassurance re MBC. I have been so comfortable and reassured by the professionals thus far. I am relieved to hear you found them to be amazing and caring. So grateful.