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Hey Nadi, first a big hug, I'm sorry for the loss of your father in law and that your now on this roller coaster, having your hubby away at this time makes it harder for you.
it will settle down, things won't move so fast and you will eventually process it all, all those unknown answers to your questions slowly get answers, like the other lady's have said one step at a time, focus on getting thru surgery then tackle the next step.
i felt the same as you on diagnosis, my head was spinning, I literally had got the all clear from cervical cancer surgery then 5 days later was diagnosed with breast cancer, I felt like having a tantrum! It was a blur for the next two weeks, trying to get my head around it all, but I did get thru those initial weeks and so will you!
hang in there, use every support available to you, I hope surgery goes well for you xxx