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Anna15
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3 months ago

HER2 positive diagnosed Dec 24 -

49 fit and healthy and then what the!  Noticed a dimple in left breast, straight to Dr, all the tests and within 18 days was having my first round of chemo 2 days after Christmas. 2 cm lump left breast, HER2 3+ positive, they don’t believe it is in my lymph nodes just one enlarged from the biopsy. Just finished 2nd of 6 rounds of chemo. Then plan is a lumpectomy, radio and then endocrine therapy. Reading all the threads of HER2 positive it seems like a long road ahead. Did anyone choose a double mastectomy to avoid issues in the future? Would love any suggestions, advice, feedback for anyone going through a similar journey. 
  • hi @Anna15 your internal dialogue will strike a chord for many of us. I recall being gently cautioned to keep an open mind and to be prepared for the possibility that, whilst the surgeon was confident a lumpectomy would be appropriate for me, I might have to have further surgery, including a mastectomy, if the pathology results came back with a more complex picture. As it happened in my case I didn’t need further surgery.  I found the state of uncertainty during the neo adjuvant phase challenging but I told myself  that it meant my treatment would be bespoke and truly tailored to me as it would be informed my particular results, as far as possible, and therefore have the best possible effectiveness. You can imagine it was a fantastic day whenever we got a scan done or a pathology report back that shed some light on which path I’d be taking next ☺️
    On a side note @SC75 mentioned her cancer subtype as invasive lobular carcinoma or ILC. My breast cancer subtype was also ILC, I am not sure if you are, but just in case, BCNA has an ILC group and it, in turn has a link to the FAQs from the Lobular Breast Cancer Alliance 
     https://lobularbreastcancer.org/faq/
    with responses to some of the questions you’re contemplating. 
    Also, ❤️ what incredible responses and stories shared above - lots of solidarity here for you now and over the months ahead @An@Anna15 🌸🌻
  • Dear @Anna15 and all respondents,

    from jennyss in Western NSW
  • TCHP stands for DoceTaxel, Carboplatin, Traztuzumab (Herceptin), Pertuzumab (Perjeta)

  • Hi Anna15, Sorry it has taken a little bit to get back to you..(life!)To answer your question regarding BRCA 2, Being positive greatly increases the cancer of returning…it did! I ended up with having both breasts removed (no reconstruction) and also having the ovaries and fallopian tubes removed as these also are sites for breast cancer (or tumours)to develop due to being estrogon sensitive. They are not considered metastatic sites but are considered higher risk for breast cancer tumours.  If it metastasises, likely areas appear to be spine, lungs but can really be anywhere.. be your own best advocate for your health! Knowing I had BRCA 2, made me more proactive in getting lumps and bumps seen to despite sometimes being  told “it doesn’t feel cancerous”…I am no longer willing to wait to “see what happens” ….hope this answers your questions and if you have any more, just ask!
  • Hi Anna!
    I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to share a bit more about my journey with my bilateral mastectomy, as I know it can be so helpful to connect with others going through similar experiences. My surgery lasted around four hours, and I chose not to have immediate reconstruction. Like @Mareealso, I also have family history of cancer —my mum had ovarian cancer, and my aunt battled breast cancer. Because of that, I’m currently looking into genetic testing for the BRCA gene. If I find out I have it, I’ll be considering having my ovaries and fallopian tubes removed for peace of mind.
    As for the healing process, I think it’s important to remember that everyone’s experience is different. I actually found my recovery to be a bit easier than I expected! Once I woke up from the anesthesia, I felt pretty good (thanks to the lovely meds!), and within an hour, I was up and walking around—even went to the coffee shop with my partner! I only stayed one night in the hospital and was back home the next day. I took the prescribed painkillers for just a couple of days, and then I switched to panadol when needed. Staying active really helped; I walked on my treadmill and did my physiotherapy exercises. My drains were out in a week, and by six weeks, I was cleared to start running again! I know everyone’s journey is unique, and I was fortunate to have a relatively smooth recovery without work pressures. Looking back, those six weeks feel short compared to the big picture of life.
    About my Oncotype DX test results—turns out I have a 2.7% increased benefit from chemotherapy, which is a little higher than the original prediction of 1%. I had a strong feeling that I should consider this number, even though I was given the option to skip chemo. Statistics can be a bit daunting, but this one hit home for me, especially since I belong to the one in seven who has been diagnosed with breast cancer. Like @Afraser, since having breast cancer statistics feel so much different than they did before. For me, it’s all about giving it my all to prevent any chance of recurrence. My husband is wonderful and completely supports my decision, but he has a different mindset. He thinks if he were in my shoes, he might skip the chemo to focus more on living in the moment. It’s interesting how everyone has their own perspective on what brings peace of mind.
    Whatever you decide will be the right choice for you, and I’m here cheering you on! Like you, I dream of living a long, vibrant life—traveling, making memories with my kids, and watching my beautiful boy grow up. I truly believe that even if our old selves feel distant, we’ll get through this together and find joy in life again, appreciating every moment.
    Remember, you’ve got this! Please keep us updated on how you’re doing. We’re all here for you, supporting you every step of the way! 💖
  • Hi @Anna15

    I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to share a bit more about my journey with my bilateral mastectomy, as I know it can be so helpful to connect with others going through similar experiences. My surgery lasted around four hours, and I chose not to have immediate reconstruction. Like @Mareealso I also want to mention my family history—my mum had ovarian cancer, and my aunt battled breast cancer. Because of that, I’m currently looking into genetic testing for the BRCA gene. If I find out I have it, I’ll be considering having my ovaries and fallopian tubes removed for peace of mind.

    As for the healing process, I think it’s important to remember that everyone’s experience is different. I actually found my recovery to be a bit easier than I expected! Once I woke up from the anesthesia, I felt pretty good (thanks to the lovely meds!), and within an hour, I was up and walking around—even went to the coffee shop with my partner! I only stayed one night in the hospital and was back home the next day. I took the prescribed painkillers for just a couple of days, and then I switched to panadol when needed. Staying active really helped; I walked on my treadmill and did my physiotherapy exercises. My drains were out in a week, and by six weeks, I was cleared to start running again! I know everyone’s journey is unique, and I was fortunate to have a relatively smooth recovery without work pressures. Looking back, those six weeks feel short compared to the big picture of life.

    About my Oncotype DX test results—turns out I have a 2.7% increased benefit from chemotherapy, which is a little higher than the original prediction of 1%. I had a strong feeling that I should consider this number, even though I was given the option to skip chemo. Statistics can be a bit daunting, but this one hit home for me, especially since I belong to the one in seven who has been diagnosed with breast cancer. Like @Afraser, I feel statistics sit differently for me now I have been one of them. For me, it’s all about giving it my all to prevent any chance of recurrence. My husband is wonderful and completely supports my decision, but he has a different mindset. He thinks if he were in my shoes, he might skip the chemo to focus more on living in the moment. It’s interesting how everyone has their own perspective on what brings peace of mind.

    Whatever you decide will be the right choice for you, and I’m here cheering you on! Like you, I dream of living a long, vibrant life—traveling, making memories with my kids, and watching my beautiful boy grow up. I truly believe that even if our old selves feel distant, we’ll get through this together and find joy in life again, appreciating every moment. 

    Remember, you’ve got this! Please keep us updated on how you’re doing. We’re all here for you, supporting you every step of the way! 💖