Welcome to BCNA, @Poek78 - you are in the best place to get honest answers from those who've 'been there, done that' .... and there are no silly questions, so ask away.
I went private for surgery & public for radiation @Poek78 - and my surgeon was upfront about out of pocket costs for the surgery. Sometimes they work in both private and public arenas - tho if you go with them in the public section - there may be a bit of a wait .....
Sometimes there are unforeseen gaps in other areas too - tho my public radiation (Mon-Fri for 4 weeks) cost nothing other than accommodation. I even had a $500 bill for part of my biopsy results, that for some reason, Medicare wouldn't cover! ....
Absolutely, you must ask about the Gap BEFORE you have your surgery - and as @June1952 says, have a go at negotiating with the surgeon! ;)
Feel free to jump onto this thread for info on other topics on the Forum - there is a link to what to take to hospital as well as tick sheets for 'self assessing' following your surgery. Take them with you to your team meetings after your surgery.
We also have some 'off topic' threads, where you can show us your pets, garden, art & crafts & more .... and also some Funny posts as well - as we all need a laugh now & then!
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-our-new-members#latestIf you add your general location on your profile - members may also be able to advise you of other services that may be available to you in your area.
Make sure you take a buddy with you to your meetings - even record them on your phone so that you can listen to them again later on. It is easy to miss bits in the emotions of the moment ... and 2 sets of ears are definitely better than one.
Take care & all the best for your upcoming appointments xx