Welcome @Joleystub to this club none of us ever wanted to join. Yes, you have come to the right place as we have all been where you are so know exactly how you are feeling. I am long past that scary time but some newbies will be on shortly to chat with you.
Please try to take things one step at a time as if you try to look too far ahead you may be worrying about things which may not be part of your treatment and/or happen. Much of the data in Google is also out of date so stick with this BCNA site, or similar organizations, for any research.
Ask away here, no question is too small or too silly. Make lists of questions and concerns and take that with you to appointments. Keep in touch. Thinking of you. 💖