My cancer was also lobular and because if the size of the tumour I had to have a right side mastectomy (chose to have a bilateral mastectomy). Had 17 lymph nodes removed and one showed cancerous cells. I did not have chemo as was told this type of cancer does not respond well to chemo. Had 5 weeks of radiation then medication. Early problems with cording but physio provided exercises to help. Was reassured with the treatment decisions as this was made by a large team and not just one doctor. Be informed, ask questions but take it step by step. I too during the early days found it difficult to be positive, waiting for all test results etc. Once I knew the course of treatment I was in a much better state of mind. I am a lot older than you and it sucks that anyone has to go through this let alone young ladies.