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Shae
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3 months ago

What to ask the surgeon post surgery?

Last week, I was diagnosed with stage 1 last week, ER+PR positive, HER 2 negative. Right side, very deep tho.  A week later (!) I already did a lumpectomy and removal of some lymph nodes to test if it spread and decide if I need chemo. I was told radiotherapy is recommended.  

 

It was an overwhelming whirlwind this past 10 days, and I'm now trying to get back some control...

I have my post op meeting with the surgeon this Tuesday am.  Any suggested list of questions?

I've also decided to ask her for 2 referrals for further treatment. 

  1. Private (Cabrini Melb, where I was so far) >> I didn't really understood I have a choice to go to public...
  2. The Alfred - public, which is a walking distance from me...

I've decided to go public pending in how soon they can see me. Any thoughts? 

Thank you all in advance! so glad there is a place to share what we're going through atm

 

 

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  • Sorry to see you joining us here Shae​  .... it's good that you had your surgery quite quickly, following your diagnosis.  

    I had private surgery, but went public for both Radiation Onc and my Medical Oncologist & I couldn't fault the treatment.  I have my final appt with my Medical Onc next week!!   I've seen the same Oncs throughout my 7 year treatment, unless they were ill or having babies - and then I saw their Locum.
    The Alfred has a very good name .... and being so close to you, is a real bonus!

    You will also most likely see both a medical and radiation oncologist, for discussion on further treatment re radiation & hormone suppression meds and/or the need for chemo.  I dodged the chemo bullet - just had Radiation & the Tabs.

    Here's a list of questions to consider putting to your Surgeon - write down the ones you want to ask & tick them off, as they are addressed. .... and always ask for copies of your surgical and scan results.
    I'd recommend that you also record your appointments on your phone, so you can go over it again if you need to at home - as it is hard to remember everything that is said.  Take a trusted friend with you as a separate set of ears (and for support!)

    Check out this thread, for lots of general info on the forum & some handy 'tick sheets' for checking your recovery!
    https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussions/general-discussion/a-big-welcome-to-all-new-online-network-members-/222737

    Take care and all the best for your meeting with your Surgeon xx

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      Shae
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      This is wonderful arpie​! Thank you so much  - really appreciate it. So many great insights   - THANK YOU!