Struggling to cope
Hi everyone, im one week diagnosed with 5cm triple negative stage 2 grade 3 breast cancer. I’m completely freaking out but I’m really struggling to see past anything but dark thoughts.CT scan showe...
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Dear@klp
That’s a sane and normal reaction. It’s the one most of us have at the beginning - that it’s all about the end! But for many, it’s the start of a road we didn’t plan (or want!) but it’s still a road about living. There will be a time to think about those fears in a less frantic environment, but for the meantime put your energies into fighting cancer, getting through treatment and seeing the future again. The CT scan is good news, the other tests will help clarify things. Many have found that the uncertainty is the hardest problem, so the more you know the better the focus, for treatment and for your mind. Maybe not right now, but at some time, think about some special support, through either other younger women with families and how they have coped, or with a counsellor. You wouldn’t hesitate to talk to a financial adviser if you had some money issues to deal with, fear and uncertainty can be even harder to deal with emotionally and family and friends are in the grip of it too - all focussed on you, but not always helpful in spite of best intentions. One step at a time - you can walk a very long way one step at a time. Best wishes.
That’s a sane and normal reaction. It’s the one most of us have at the beginning - that it’s all about the end! But for many, it’s the start of a road we didn’t plan (or want!) but it’s still a road about living. There will be a time to think about those fears in a less frantic environment, but for the meantime put your energies into fighting cancer, getting through treatment and seeing the future again. The CT scan is good news, the other tests will help clarify things. Many have found that the uncertainty is the hardest problem, so the more you know the better the focus, for treatment and for your mind. Maybe not right now, but at some time, think about some special support, through either other younger women with families and how they have coped, or with a counsellor. You wouldn’t hesitate to talk to a financial adviser if you had some money issues to deal with, fear and uncertainty can be even harder to deal with emotionally and family and friends are in the grip of it too - all focussed on you, but not always helpful in spite of best intentions. One step at a time - you can walk a very long way one step at a time. Best wishes.