Hi all, I am new to all this so apologies if I get it wrong. I am a 41 year old mother of one and have just been Diagnosed with TNBC invasive grade three. I have had breast surgery and my ovaries removed and will start chemo on the 28th of this month. So much has happened in the last 4 weeks that it just doesn't seem real. I am a little worried about the chemo and really do not know what to expect. Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Jen

Hi Sam, I also found mine by accident when I was actually in hospital with my daughter in Brisbane who has an ongoing lung disease. Not the best news I have ever received but, yes I am happy that it was found. I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago so just had my ovaries left behind. I think that I may be suffering from surgical menopause....hots/colds etc. all I need heading into chemo. The hysterectomy knocks you around a lot. Prepare yourself for pain and tiredness....having said that I was back at work 10 days later. We actually live up in Airlie Beach and will travel to Brisbane for treatments....having it done at the mater private...great drs! So do you do chemo every 3rd week? I don't know till I get down there. Thank you for replying....it sounds strange but just having someone else tell you how it really is and understand even though you don't know them is really really great! Thanks and all the best for January.. Jen

We're part of a really shitty little group, but we're tough too! Feel free to email whenever you like if it's easier. samtay@bigpond.net.au

Hi Jen, I am also another who was 41 when I found my Grade 3 TNBC. Lumpectomy and Auxillary Clearance followed by Chemo and Radiotherapy. I had 5 girls at the time 10 months - 8 years and live in Bundaberg. I only had to travel to Brisbane for my first two Chemos and could have the rest in Bundaberg. I found eating before Chemo really helped and also I know I probably shouldn't but Coke was the one thing I could drink that tasted ok for the first couple of days, with alternating water and it also helped with my small amount of nausea. I was petrified for my first Chemo but when it was over I was shocked that I felt quite o.k. and normal. I don't know what I was expecting. Everyone is different, do you have a Breast Care Nurse in Airlie? We are blessed with a McGrath Nurse in Bundaberg. What about Radiotherapy? I am glad you have found this group and BCNA are a wonderful support with loads of resources. Good news I am 46 now and will be having my five year scans next month. Be kind to yourself, seek support and vent here anytime. xx

I was really nervous before chemo too, but I did learn a few tricks. One is make sure you go for a walk beforehand so that your circulation is working - that will make it much easier for the nurse to find a vein. Lots of water is good too. Chemo is individual. I found it really hard going but a friend of mine going through it now is coping really well. She is very fit. I was overweight and really tired, and I just needed lots of time out. I suffered really bad constipation but as long as I prepared for that (enemas, the right diet) it was okay. Put yourself first; don't plan to do much. It is now two years since my lumpectomy and 20 months since I finished chemo. I didn't think it at the time, but you do get through it and life does return to nearly normal. A big breakthrough for me has been to join Dragons Abreast. I have never done much exercise; now I regularly paddle and whilst still unfit I am improving. We all never thought we would have to go to such dark places. But there are good things that come out of all this. Good luck xx

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Hi Sam, I also found mine by accident when I was actually in hospital with my daughter in Brisbane who has an ongoing lung disease. Not the best news I have ever received but, yes I am happy that it was found. I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago so just had my ovaries left behind. I think that I may be suffering from surgical menopause....hots/colds etc. all I need heading into chemo. The hysterectomy knocks you around a lot. Prepare yourself for pain and tiredness....having said that I was back at work 10 days later. We actually live up in Airlie Beach and will travel to Brisbane for treatments....having it done at the mater private...great drs! So do you do chemo every 3rd week? I don't know till I get down there. Thank you for replying....it sounds strange but just having someone else tell you how it really is and understand even though you don't know them is really really great! Thanks and all the best for January.. Jen

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